Online Dating Tips

Dating Tips


Sometimes two people get to know each other online, and over the phone, but don’t exchange photos, for whatever reason. You may have hit it off so well during your emails and other conversations that you are willing to move on to that first date, sight unseen. Basically, this is considered to be a blind date.

Blind dates are always exciting. You’ve envisioned this person and what they may look like, and now the moment of truth is just around the corner. Of course, with a blind date you two will need a plan so you can easily recognize each other. Make things lighthearted and fun--after all, you’re going to be somewhat nervous anyway, and laughter really is a highly attractive quality. Wear something easy to recognize, like your bright yellow shirt. You don’t want your date walking up to several complete strangers asking them if their name is “Holly” before you are finally found.

It’s best to meet in a public place, perhaps a park where you two could feed the ducks, sit on the swings, or grab a cappuccino. Many towns also have unique outdoor promenades, boardwalks, and art museums. All are ideal choices. If chilly weather forces the date indoors, an afternoon of bowling, a pottery or cooking class, or a few hours of ice skating can be a memorable experience.


Safety should be a serious consideration as well. Even though the voice on the other end of the phone sounds like citizen of the year, it’s always best to use safe practices. A weekend date during daylight hours is perfect. Arrange to arrive in separate vehicles until you feel more comfortable with this person.

Once the date has come to an end, keep this in mind: as long as the date went fairly well and there weren’t any obvious red flags, go ahead and plan for date number two. There aren’t always fireworks during that first meeting. Some people quickly end what could have been a wonderful and fulfilling relationship just because they were looking for that instant “click” or “inner knowing.” More often than not, true and lasting relationships develop over time. The first date has a certain level of anxiety involved, and it may take until the third or fourth meeting for each of you to feel relaxed enough to really let your guard down.

Whatever you decide, dating should be an enjoyable adventure. Good luck in your search for Mr. or Ms. Right, and have fun along the way.